“Immediately I broke up with my last immature, so-called boyfriend, I knew I was done with all these petty niggas,” Omoshalewa said during our first meeting.
Before now, she had painful experiences with some ‘bad guys’ and now, her best option is enjoying the moment with a sugar daddy.
Dating a sugar daddy is a lucrative deal for young Nigerian ladies. The reasons for their engagement with their fathers’ and grandparents’ age mates differ.
While some ladies date older people for monetary gain, some simply cannot cope with young folks because they are victims of heartbreak or scared of possible heartbreak.
According to the Oxford English Dictionary (2017), the term “sugar” is slang, but is often used as a modifier to “sweeten” something and as a euphemism for money. Payment can be received by way of money, gifts, support or other material benefits in exchange for companionship or a dating-like relationship.
For the Daddies, some of these men just want to feel the need to be with someone younger and ready to give the vibes they need to feel like a youth again.
Omoshalewa is one of the pretty ladies who knew her onions so well in Lagos. She just got a sugar daddy and she wouldn’t make the mistake of letting him go anytime soon. Her previous experiences in “bad guys” made her settle for a sugar daddy.
Her sugar daddy, Doctor Williams, is not too old. He’s just 58
“Williams is my babe, he gives me peace of mind,” she narrated. “He is better than my ex-boyfriend who failed woefully at his duty. He called himself my boyfriend but can’t just for once take responsibility. He always complains about being broke but it’s so easy for him to tell me he’s horny.”
“He knows how to cut the conversation off whenever I raise something vital about our future. Please tell me why I should keep wasting time with such a boy. So, getting myself Williams as sugar daddy gives birth to a new beginning of actual dreams realization,” Omoshalewa joyfully said.
She’s not the only one deriving pleasure in sleeping with an older man. Her friend, Tamara is also into the game. She’s dating an elderly man simply identified as Dare. Tamara didn’t have a rosy relationship with young guys either.
“Ladies, let me share my experience with you with all these petty insecure boys out there. Happened to be with Jude, who practically takes offense and becomes really insecure with everything, my beauty, my career, how I get this, why I bought that, how I was able to even afford what I bought and where I go with my friends,” she said as she took us through the journey of her past.
“When I realized everyday explanations could not solve it, I decided to move on with someone more mature. Boom! I met Dare. I love my men mature, I really can’t cope with insecure boys who want to know where you’re, how you get what you have and always complain about dreaming too much”
“The older men don’t have that time. They give peace and know how to be responsible when duty calls. Proudly in a relationship with a sweet sugar daddy who gives me nothing but absolute peace of mind and respect I yearned for.”
We all smiled when Tamara finished narrating her experience and we all called for desserts.
Findings from ladies have further revealed that beyond random stipend, sugar babies are now on the monthly payroll of sugar daddies. Are these ladies lucky or not? The decision is for our readers to make.
Alas! There are young women who are financially stable and still find comfort being around older men in respect of their age or marital status, perhaps because sugar daddies give proper listening ears to younger women, give directions and advice on how to go about their plans, support every of their moves and correct every wrong decision.
But does this worth it?