Have you ticked your calendar for dates your Christmas sex will happen?
Have you sent your partner random flowers with a note as a reminder of how you’re looking forward to the Christmas sex?
I can bet since the beginning of the year, many men/ women haven’t had mind-blowing sex all because of work stress and less attention to those steps leading to climax sex.
Yes, women love to be touched the best way to arouse their orgasm rather than a straight to penetration kind of sex, likewise, men love to be satisfied by women who know how to take charge and display some nasty kitty ‘Kat’ attitude in bed and throw a gogo dance display.
Welcome to Christmas. And there are multifarious ways to have a mind blowing time with your partner leaving one another wasted and waking up bright and sharp through the holiday.
Can we have sex everyday throughout the holiday? Yes! you can if you have the strength and whenever you feel the urge to savor each other. However, penetration is not the only way to get sexual satisfaction. Trying something new in terms of foreplay and some sensual oral sex; spending more time to explore your partner’s body and know what they really love and what they are willing to try out.
Light off, light on I just want you to have a more relaxing sex this holiday, so follow the step by step and make this holiday sex a memorable one.
Wax/ clean shave: want to have a less bruises and smooth sex the first step is to have a clean shave. But if you want to give your private part a treat try out waxing and experience a new level of smoothness as you explore this Christmas.
New matching lingerie/ New briefs: how can you be preparing for Christmas sex without adding new lingerie and briefs to the cart? A sexy lingerie however set the mood for the sex and nothing could be more sexier for picking bright colors. Also sending designs and lingerie color to your partner asking which they would love to see you wearing makes them anticipate. Nothing is sexier than that feeling.
Try out new sex styles: how to have a smashing sex this holiday is to have conversation about those sex styles you would love to try out for your Christmas sex try to pick out comfortable ones. Try teasing during the sex and try as much as possible to explore.
Candles & Wine: Giving it all it takes to make this sex an enthralling one this holiday deserves going all out and make adequate provisions for what will make this Christmas sex a great one. Buying beautiful scent candles to light up the room before the Christmas sex happen won’t be a faux pas and stocking the house with those red/sweet wines that activates the flirty side of your partner putting you both in the right cloud. Suggestions can be made but I would leave you both to walk into a wine store together while you giggle and throw those winks.
Dirty talks: Many partners don’t know the power of dirty talking before sexual actions. Meanwhile many also feel talking dirty portrays them as being spoilt and rotten. However talking dirty before sex is another way to set the brain and mind in the mood for the actions with flirty words. Your dirty talk might be about what you’re going to do to them , make them anticipate the actions.
Gesture: Gesture and dirty talks are the gear box in setting the tone or the direction for a great sex will take. Knowing when to throw random winks at your partner, give them mild spank, lips biting or naughty smirks.
Be intentional: Christmas sex turns out great by giving one’s all it takes, from having conversations about how it’s going to be, discussing the atmosphere, picking wines, choosing locations, making romantic reservations, and having nasty conversation.
Send randoms Jpegs: sending randoms jpegs from the office or wherever you’re is another way to prepare your partner for the Christmas Sex, sending random pictures of you shows they’ve been in your thoughts in every step and every second of the day. Note: do not send boring jpegs, let there be a message behind every sent image to be decoded by your partner. Serving as a trivial game to solve or have conversation about making them guess what the image means.
A+ Romantic Movies only: I wouldn’t want you to watch movies with tragic ending that will make you and your partner question your connection and start passing paper towels while blowing your nose and wiping tears neither do I want the romance fire to stop burning, so I would love movies that you will pause steal some kisses and return back to the movies. So here are
Some romantic movies to check out ‘Love Actually’ ,’ “ Sleepless in Seattle” “The Notebook’ , “ Me Before You”, “ Bridget Jones Diary” “ Call Me By Your Name”, “The Vow”, “Date Night” “ About Time” “ Casablanca” “ A Walk to Remember” “ 365 Days” “After We Collided”, “ Chemical Hearts” “ Emma” “2 Hearts” , “The Photographs” and so many other romantic movies.
Have a playlist: playlist is another tool to spark the atmosphere. I find it difficult to climax without some hot romantic lyrical rhythms. Reason why ‘ slow motion’ by Trey songz will forever be my hit song for the moment. Music has been scientifically proven to have a powerful effect on the brain. Creating a great playlist will help your Christmas sex turn out to be an outstanding one and leaving your house in that romantic atmosphere for a long period of time even after the holiday. EdSheeran, Chris brown, the weekends, Bruno Mars, Justin Bieber, Trey Songz, Celine Dion and Whitney should be pay keen attention to while making your Christmas sex playlist.
Outdoor event: Making reservation for soul music live band performance or Jazz is another event to sneak into the plan of your Christmas sex exploit.
AfterSexConversation: I have noticed most people shy away from having conversation after sex not wanting to know how they satisfy their partner or how the new style made him/her feel. This conversation is however important and necessary and should be as honest as possible. If it wasn’t good enough, discuss it with your partner gently and lovingly for their improvement. And if it was great, compliment each other and point out the style or foreplay that got your body tingling.