We are familiar with the saying “Let he without sin cast the first stone”, but has that sunk deep?
Having a balanced and unbiased viewpoint on an issue is always better than getting a few breadcrumbs of a story, holding on to it and acting like it is a full course meal.
Apart from helping you have an informed and more intelligent opinion on the subject matter, it also prevents you from passing wrong judgements on people. Let’s not dive into the fact that people just enjoy playing god, or chief judge in other people’s lives for reasons best known to their ego.
The truth is, the Tonto Dikeh, Olakunle Churchill and actress Rosy Meurer saga, is not the first and would not be last of its kind.
Just in case you missed the gist, Tonto Dike’s ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill introduced the actress Rosy Meurer as his wife on her birthday in a new post on social media, addressing her as Mrs Churchill.
This announcement or perhaps show of love got a lot of tongues wagging and Rosy was in for some premium dragging on Twitter because she was rumoured to be the reason behind the Tonto and Churchill’s divorce.
Tonto previously said that Churchill was sleeping with Rosy, buying her gifts and taking her on trips. She also explained that Rosy is one of the reasons for her marital crisis which eventually led to a divorce but Rosy vehemently denied it.
She clearly said in an interview with Hiptv that “sleeping with Churchill was as good as sleeping with her brother”.
The next question is, how come Rosy ended up marrying the supposed brother?
Now that you’re up to speed, let’s analyse these different parties shall we?
On today’s episode of men are scum, the producers of this show would be quick to throw and crown Churchill the king of scum.
I mean, dating your wife’s friend while still married is just a below the belt move. Right or wrong?
And to think that the progression was from personnel assistant to wife is just too smooth and conniving, one would think.
Questions like “Didn’t he love his wife?, What did Rosy have that Tonto didn’t have?, Can you ever satisfy men?” would come up.
Most of these questions are very relevant and need to be answered just before you throw on your Judge wig.
Isn’t it funny someone like Rosy, seeing how much fire she was under for being Churchill’s new wife, could still go-ahead to reveal that Churchill proposed to her two years ago and they got married a year ago.
We’re not certain the category of cruise to place her in. Tongue lashers would howl insults and curses on her for betraying her “friend” and supposedly destroying Tonto’s marriage.
However, let’s not forget that Tonto accused Churchill of being gay, an internet fraudster and had premature ejaculation, among other things that resulted in their divorce.
Apart from infidelity, other things mentioned are deal-breakers for some ladies so why cast a stone?
Let’s not even mention the fact that some women are still married to cheating husbands but still choose to stay.
It is interesting how Tonto is so chilled on the matter.
Bobrisky might just be right when she said we do not know the new Tonto Dikeh. Her silence response is so admirable. Hurt or nothing, her silence shows that she has her whole life ahead of her and has decided to focus on it.
Critically looking at it, this new revelation of Churchill and Rosy’s union is technically none of her business so, why indulge?
All I am saying is, we only know bits and pieces of the story and therefore, we cannot draw a wholesome conclusion.
Unfortunately, some people passing judgment on the matter have done worse or will if given the same opportunity.
At this point, I think I should off my mic or perhaps drop my pen.