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Rising from your bed every morning all grumpy and groggy while heading straight to the toilet or kitchen is too normal and not a sexy way to start your day. But getting good morning sex is a pretty big strike to get your day started. God forgive me if I sounds like a sinner.
But a sex therapist and expert, Omolola Natural, here give you some pieces of useful advice on how you can spice your day with early morning sex, how it can be done and enjoyed as well as where, when, why and how it should be done. www.olamnaturalworld.com
Morning sex
Morning sex should not be missed for anything in the world. Morning period is rated among the best times to have sex. Why? There is less stress at that time of the day; the body is also relaxed and sexual hormones are active at that time. However, if you are trying to choose the best time to have sex, the morning is the best time ever because its advantages far outweigh the benefits derivable from sex any other time of the day. I will suggest couples should try the early morning grind, if not often, at least, once in a week. You can fix your sexual activities for the morning period for optimum pleasure.
Ways to make early sex happen
There is no special way to get you in the mood for sex in the morning. It’s the same way sex happens; it starts from the touch. As you know, sex is not just penetrating. It starts from touching and playing with your spouse; it might even be initiated from the night before. But this has to do with understanding your partner’s love language. If you have a partner who speaks a love language of gifts, and you’ve already bought that gift, you’ve already started some cuddling; you just extend it into the next morning. So, your spouse could still be on the bed sleeping and you start with the romance. You can wake up and start rolling your tongue all over your spouse’s body. You’ll notice I keep mentioning spouse. This is to tell you that it should not be only a man that activates sex, it could be from the woman too. No rule says a man should always be the initiator of morning sex. It can come from either side.
Basically, the ways to make it happen is to get into the act, get into the act of romance, start touching your spouse. If it’s from the woman, and you are comfortable with going oral, when you wake up, put his penis into your mouth and start sucking. Wake him up with that, and if it’s the man, let your tongue go down.
Apart from using your tongue, you can also use your hand (fingers). Take your fingers to his penis, make sure your hand is lubricated and start stroking/massage. For a man, you don’t have to go down straight to her vagina. You can start from her thigh; let your fingers draw a circle on her inner thigh, let your tongue go into her ears, suck her nipples and let your fingers do the work on her body before you even go down into her vagina. Visit her clitoris, take time with her clitoris.
So, these are ways to initiate morning sex. It’s also worthy of note that in the morning so many people could be in a rush; to get your spouse prepared, it can happen within five minutes and still feel fully satisfied sexually.
If you are a couple not used to morning sex, another thing you should put into consideration is not going to bed like someone going to war. Dress nightly, wear something that will make your husband go beneath your body fast; as a ma, maybe a boxer and if you are comfortable with going to bed naked, all is perfect. Just make sure it’s not tight-fitted. Wear a free boxer that gives fast access to the penis and for the woman, light and skimpy nightie.
Benefits of morning sex
Ok! The truth is if you see someone who is always excited in the morning, observe him or her very well. You may eventually discover the person is always having early morning grind. But this is not a general rule. You know there’s always exceptions but the truth about morning sex is that it boost /triggers the happiness hormones; it makes you excited and energizes you with the extra energy for the day. It gives you extra energy just like you derive from your morning workout. It is the energizing approach towards work compared to when you didn’t do exercise at all.
However, engaging in morning sex can make you pay less attention to someone trying to get on your nerves because such morning grind produces an ‘OXYTOCIN’ hormone, which has to do with the happiness hormones, which makes you feel happy. So, when you have early morning sex, oxytocin is released in large quantity and this makes you feel good all through the day.
It also makes both the man and woman look younger always because the early morning grind makes you feel relaxed most of the time since you won’t be stressing every cell and nerve in your body.
Early morning sex also boosts your immune system.
Exploring different styles and positions for your morning grind
This depend on where you sleep. Assuming you are where kids are not available, you can explore the different styles with your morning sex.
Doggy style: It’s a very good option for morning sex. The bathroom is also a great location for morning sex. While the shower runs, you as a woman, place your hand on the wall and bend a bit while the man comes in from behind.
Cross missionary: while in bed, one might feel lazy; so settling for a cross missionary style. The man is not lying straight on the woman, he’s lying in a T-shape form.
Advance wheel barrow style: another style format is a woman raising her two legs up for the man to go in. She lies flat, her two legs up, more like a wheel barrow style, but lying down. Then he (the man) comes into her vagina from underneath her leg. This allows the man to penetrate deeper.
Moreover, there’s hardly any other penetration that goes in deeper than the doggy; now the doggy can be the woman on all fours. She could be lying flat with a pillow under her stomach or just raise her buttocks with a pillow to enable the man to penetrate. However, these two doggy styles depend on the height of the woman and of the man involved determines the best style that suits the couple, either she lies down on the pillow or she goes all fours. But the height of both couple is a great determinant of this.
Reverse cow-girl: Here, the man sits on the edge of the bed and the woman sits on his partner and rides him. However, if he’s still sleeping and you discover he’s risen (penis) and you’re wet, sit on him while you ride him while lying down and let him wake up to that grinding.
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Best day to fix your early morning sex
“Monday morning!”…she screamed! “Nothing else starts a week better than that!”
Sending a nasty thank you message when you get to work can make your partner yearn more for you like Simon burns for Daphne in Bridgerton, and make the memory linger till the next action.
So, there’s no better way to start off your day like a morning grind with your spouse.